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How to Give and Not Get Got!

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Syndicated | BlackEnterprise.com

santa-giving-jarDon’t get taken in by charity scams during the holiday season. Always remember: the stronger your urge to give, the more attractive you are to con artists more than willing to accept your generosity.

The holiday season—reinforced by the gifting traditions of Christmas, Kwanzaa, and Hanukkah—is an especially important time for charitable causes of all kinds. Donors are more likely to respond to fundraising appeals during the holiday season than at any other time of the year.

Our instinct toward giving is a healthy one, not just spiritually, but financially as well. One of the common traits of successful wealth accumulators is their consistent habit of channeling a portion of their wealth in support of the institutions and charitable causes they believe in. They understand that investing their resources in community-sustaining institutions, programs, and causes creates a healthier and more fertile environment for their own wealth-building efforts. This is the rationale behind the biblical principle of tithing to your church.

Unfortunately, the peak season for legitimate charities also happens to be prime time for fundraising scams, bogus charities, and con artists intent on separating you from your money. The key to not being taken advantage of is not to be less generous, but to be more thoughtful, deliberate, and strategic with your charitable donations. Here are some tips to make sure you don’t get taken.

1. Treat your charitable donations as you would any investment.

If you invest in a mutual fund, you expect a specific return on that investment. In the same way, when you make a donation to a charity, you want to be sure that your dollars will be used to achieve the result—whether it is fighting the spread of AIDS in the black community or providing relief to natural disaster victims—that you intended it to. You wouldn’t put money into a mutual fund without reading a prospectus and learning about the fund’s past performance and investment philosophy. To be sure you don’t get taken, never give money to any charity that you are not familiar with and have not investigated for yourself.




Make sure you get the actual name, address, and phone number of the charity before giving. Then check it out by going to the IRS website at www.irs.gov, which has an updated list of legitimate charities and nonprofit groups, or by calling the IRS toll-free at 877-829-5500. Another useful website is www.give.org, part of the Better Business Bureau’s Wise Giving Alliance. Also check out two great websites that review and grade individual charities, www.CharityWatch.org and www.CharityNavigator.org.

2. Don’t give on impulse.

Many fundraisers, even legitimate ones, will try to manipulate your emotions (gratitude, guilt, and even shame) to get you to give, even if you’re not sure you want to—and before you have a chance to check out the charity for yourself. Don’t get taken. Only give when you are familiar with the charity and you truly believe in or are passionate about the cause it serves. After all, you can’t give to every worthy cause. If what you truly care about is tithing at your church and fighting breast cancer, don’t be shamed into writing a check to save the environment. Just because it is a worthy cause, does not mean it’s your worthy cause. You have a right to choose which charities get your money without feeling guilty about saying yes to some and no to others.

3. Watch out for charity scams.

You will avoid the vast majority of fraudulent and/or unethical fundraising efforts simply by following Steps 1 and 2. Also, look out for tricks such as fake charities with names (say, the National Cancer Society, or the American Cancer Association) very similar to well-known, legitimate causes (the American Cancer Society). If you do get taken in by a charity scam, contact the Federal Trade Commission toll-free at (877) FTC-HELP. Also, report the fake charity to the state attorney general where … (continue reading ‘Tis Better to Give, But Don’t Get Taken via BlackEnterprise.com) 

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Inexpensive Gift Ideas to Give Your New Beau

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Syndicated: UpscaleMagazine.com

Ahhh, love is in the air! That’s right, it’s holiday season. This is the time that’s meant for gathering with loved ones and creating end of the year memories. Also, a special time to go out and do some gift giving for the one who truly makes your heart smile. However, what if that special someone has only been special for two months or so? You know, that weird stage where you haven’t truly argued yet and the two of you are still agreeing with everything. Then you realize it is Christmas season and you have no idea if you should purchase a gift. The probation period hasn’t come to an end yet so you don’t feel qualified enough to purchase the perfect gift.

Well, here are 5 Inexpensive Gift Ideas to give your love interest when the relationship is new:

GAS GIFT CARD

For this one you truly can’t go wrong. Who doesn’t need gas? Excluding those folks who drive the electric cars, not all of us have advanced to that luxury, yet. So yes, purchase a nice $25 gas gift card along with a sweet Christmas Card. Trust me, they will indeed appreciate you.





A GREAT BOOK

This gift would be really thoughtful. Most of us enjoy a nice read whether it’s a cool comedy book or a book related to something that person is into. There is literally a book for everything and we all have room for improvement. Who doesn’t like to broaden their horizon?

FAVORITE DESSERT

Opting for this would hands down win … (continue reading 5 Inexpensive Gift Ideas to Give Your New Beau via UpscaleMagazine.com)

 

Starting Your Own Business While Working Full-Time

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Syndicated: UpscaleMagazine.com




Bootstrapping with a paycheck is a mode of entrepreneurship that has become a major trend. Entrepreneurs are starting companies in droves while still holding onto their full-time jobs.

Two interviewers, Amina Elahi from the Chicago Tribune and Katherine Harvey from Union Tribune San Diego, recently asked Sramana Mitra the same question: If you are bootstrapping a startup with a paycheck, when is the right time to quit?

Here is what Sramana told them:

starting-a-business-while-working-full-time-by-ryan-robinson-620x413Q: How can an entrepreneur know when it’s time to make the leap to full-time self-employment?

A: This is a personal choice that depends on your life circumstances, but at the minimum, you should definitely validate your business idea and determine whether it’s going to generate money. Talk to customers and make sure they’re buying. And keep in mind that most venture capitalists will not fund you until you’re running your business full-time. Before you go out to raise money, you’re going to need to quit your day job.

On this subject, there are two other relevant questions to consider:

Q: Should bootstrapping employees tell their bosses about their side businesses?

A: A lot of people are actually disclosing, and the bosses are quite fine with it. In the tech industry, employers are encouraging employees to become more entrepreneurial. It’s considered a plus, not a minus. We are working with a bunch of companies, for example Oracle, where they are running corporate incubation programs. They’re asking employees to become entrepreneurial and call it Intrapraneurship. Corporations are willing to … (continue reading Starting Your Business While Working Full-Time)




Veterans Day: 6 Financial Tips From Military Experts

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Syndicated: Military.com | by Jennifer Calonia, GOBankingRates

The men and women in our armed forces face challenges every day, even after returning from their respective tours of duty. And while nothing can truly compare to the challenges confronted by soldiers, sailors and airmen in the face of combat, integrating oneself back into civilian life — where tracking finances is key — can be tough in its own right.

Whether acquainting oneself with tax changes, rolling over retirement accounts, managing credit, building up an emergency fund or formulating a savings-oriented budget, there are already more than enough money worries for newly reintegrated veterans to contend with.

This Veterans Day, GOBankingRates sought to address these real financial concerns by reaching out to the most influential members and organizations of the military community. We asked these experts what they think the biggest financial hardship is that veterans and active service members face today, and what they can do to achieve financial peace.

Related: Best Military Banks and Credit Unions

1. Lack of Early Financial Education

Ryan Guina, Air Force veteran and member of IL Air National Guard, helps others in this precarious financial position through his site, The Military Wallet.

“The biggest financial problem I see military members and veterans facing is having relevant financial education,” Guina said. “Financial literacy is a topic that many adults struggle with — and it’s easy to see why. High schools and colleges focus on teaching coursework that leads to a degree; they don’t always focus on teaching life skills. But the problem is often compounded for military members, who have a complex pay and benefits system (the complexity of the pay and benefits system led me to create The Military Wallet as a resource to help struggling military members and veterans).”

U.S. Marine Corps veteran, and author of the upcoming book, “8 Lessons in Military Leadership for Entrepreneurs,” Robert Kiyosaki expressed that military members are primed to be entrepreneurs out of the service as long as they ready themselves with the “vocabulary of money.”




“The advantage that service men and women have is that they have had outstanding training,” Kiyosaki said. “They have shown discipline and strength and courage — and, in my opinion — those characteristics translate into success in the civilian world, especially as entrepreneurs. Since we aren’t taught much (if anything!) about money in school, the easiest and fastest way to improve your financial health is to invest in yourself and your financial education. Rich dad’s secret weapon was words… both the words you choose and the financial vocabulary you build and use.

“Create a plan. Make it realistic. Commit to learning two new ‘vocabulary of money’ words each week. Understand what they mean. Use them is your daily conversations. Stick to your plan and put your discipline and mental toughness to work. It won’t be long before you see that small changes can deliver big results. You’ll feel smarter and more confident, more in control of your financial future — and better prepared to navigate even the most turbulent economic times.”

2. Managing Money During Deployment

When thinking of money issues veterans face, most people think of the many financial obstacles that must be dealt with upon reintegration to society, but rarely about the difficulties that veterans face when managing their money during deployment overseas. Managing investments, paying bills and contributing to savings can be tough while in a combat zone.

“Financial difficulties are often made worse because service members are frequently forced to deal with their finances while they are deployed, sent overseas, or are out to sea,” Guina said. “Most bases offer financial counseling services (often free of charge); but unfortunately, most people don’t use the counseling until they dig themselves into a financial hole.

“A better solution would be to require military members to attend financial education classes that teach basic financial skills and cover the unique complexities of the military pay and benefits system. The military does have some courses, but they are woefully inadequate, and only briefly cover the most basic topics. A more in-depth course that stresses the fundamentals, such as budgeting and basic investing, would help prevent some of the struggles with debt and predatory lenders that many of our military members often fall into. This would help military members, and ultimately help the military’s readiness capabilities.”

Jeff Rose, Army National Guard veteran, certified financial planner and author of the best selling book, “Soldier of Finance: Take Charge of Your Money and Invest in Your Future,” agrees that managing funds while deployed is a difficult balancing act. He recommends that military members reach out to a trusted person at home to be their financial eyes and ears.

“One of the greatest challenges that military have have is keeping track of their finances while on deployment or extended training missions,” Rose said. “Keeping tabs on their credit (for identity theft) or if bills are being paid is very challenging. That’s why it’s important to have a ‘financial battle buddy. For married soldiers, this is much easier as their spouse can handle this duty. For single soldiers, it’s a little more challenging but that much more important. They should consider enlisting a family member or even a close friend that monitors their credit and makes sure that nothing comes up that looks off like an unusual credit card charge. Soldiers have enough on their plates defending our freedom. Having that financial battle buddy will allow them to focus on the mission and defending our freedom.”

3. Not Enough Program Participation

JJ Montanaro, a certified financial planner at USAA, notes that financial programs can be a lifesaver for service members who are looking to be financially successful.

“Those that serve our country in uniform are confronted with the same financial challenges as the rest of America, however, the unique nature of military life can ratchet up the pressure,” Montanaro said. “You don’t get to tell Uncle Sam, ‘No, I’d rather not make that move,’ when you get orders in the military. A deployment or a move to a new location or ‘PCS’ as they’re called in the military could be right around the corner — like it or not. This can cause … (continue reading Veterans Day: 6 Financial Tips from Military Experts)

FINANCIAL DEPRESSION CONFESSION: Why my Money Woes were the End of the World and What I Did

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Published September 14, 2014

Many of my private clients who were dealing with money or credit woes were also dealing with major depression as a result of their financial situation. Whether their challenging financial situation was due to a job loss, excessive debt, unexpected financial expense, or lack of money management skills and knowledge; the emotional stress then caused significant mental and physical illnesses like high blood pressure, anxiety attacks, etc.

I can absolutely relate. So now I am sharing my Financial Depression Confession. I am sharing how my money woes made me feel like it was the end of the world and what I did to help myself get better. My hope is that my transparency with this experience will help someone get through their extremely sensitive and painful period of financial depression.  

IT WAS THE END OF THE WORLD!

I dealt with major depression. I didn’t want to get out of bed, wasn’t motivated to clean my house, didn’t want to talk or see anyone, and I cried … A LOT! I suffered from insomnia and exhaustion. I over ate and didn’t exercise, so of course I gained lots of weight, which killed my self-esteem. This vicious cycle made me feel like it was the end of the world! I even contemplated suicide, but honestly … I couldn’t even “financially” afford to kill myself. Wait! Before you judge … depression is a severe psychological illness and if not treated, it can cause the sanest person to consider or do insane things. 

WHAT I DID: I got help! I went to a clinical counselor to talk about my feelings. I know what you may be thinking, but talking out some major emotional insecurities and feelings with a qualified third party helped me to deal with those emotions. It also gave me an unbiased support system. I was reminded that my emotions were normal, which helped me to realize that what I was going through was NOT the end of the world. By purging my private pain, I was able to free my mind to think more logically.

I WAS EMOTIONALLY PARALYZED

Emotionally and mentally, I was paralyzed. I just couldn’t move past what I was going through. Yes, I prayed and did my best to trust that God would get me through it, but I just couldn’t do what was necessary to allow God to move. “Faith without Works is dead!” I knew that Bible verse and said it to myself every day. But … I felt helpless and hopeless which kept me paralyzed.

WHAT I DID: I changed my MIND! I realized that the eyes may be the strongest muscles in the body, but the Mind (brain) is the hardest muscle to change. So, I worked at it everyday. I changed what I watched, read and listened to. I became extremely protective about what I allowed to enter my mind because Thoughts turn into Words, Words turn into more Thoughts and those Thoughts turn into Actions or Non-Actions. What we visualize will actualize (positive or negative) so I only allowed positive and actionable thoughts, through affirmations, songs, books, etc.


NO ONE UNDERSTANDS!

I didn’t believe that anyone would understand what I was going through. I’m Madam Money! How could anyone understand “how” or “why” I was dealing with Money Woes? I didn’t think that anyone would understand, so I isolated myself. It was a very lonely place to not have anyone I could trust to share that I was dealing with my deepest and darkest fears of about money.

WHAT I DID: Once I realized that this “lie” I was telling myself was bred from my PRIDE. I was too proud to ask for help. So, I had to humble myself and ask my a core circle of family and friends for help. I established specific roles for each of them to help me. For example, I had friends that helped me and held me accountable for eating better and exercising, friends that made me get out of the house to avoid isolation, and a family member that helped me financially when I absolutely needed. Asking for help was the hardest thing for me to do, but it was the best thing I could have ever done. And guess what, they understood because they had experienced what I was going through.

OPERATION: FINANCIAL SELF-SABOTAGE

I medicated my pain through spending money on eating out every day, drinking and shopping. Oh yes I did! Dealing with the pain was too painful. So I tried to numb the pain by doing the opposite of was I know to do. Knowing what to do and how to do it but doing the opposite is “self-sabotage.” I become my own worst enemy. I became my most challenging client.

WHAT I DID: I got help from another financial coach. Yup! Coaches need coaching too. Even though I didn’t need my coach to tell me what to do; I needed my coach to hold me accountable to do what I know I’m supposed to do. My coach guided me through the process as a support system to stop my financial hemorrhaging caused by my financial self-sabotage.

SELF DOUBT DESTROYED ME!

Everything I did to try to improve my situation, just didn’t work. The more my attempts failed the more I doubted myself and my ability to fix my situation. How do you destroy the most confident person in the world … DOUBT! Doubt is the direct result of Fear, which is “False Evidence Appearing Real.” Bottom line … I was afraid to fail and because my attempts weren’t working, this failure made me doubt everything.

WHAT I DID: Believe it or not … I connected with others! By connecting and networking with other people and professionals, I had intellectually stimulating conversations. Those conversations helped me build new relationships and networks. Those new relationships and networks valued my connection because of my personality, expertise or passion. This built up my confidence. Not only that, I connected with people who experienced my challenges, or knew someone who could assist me with my some of my challenges. This built up my confidence and reduced my doubt.

I’m not saying that everything that I did to help me will help you. But I am saying that there is HOPE and HELP for anything that you may be going through.

Whatever you are going through, even though it may feel like it … it is NOT the end of the world. It is the beginning of a new opportunity to make you stronger than ever to improve your current financial situation.

If you are experiencing financial depression and need help, I am here for you. I look forward to being a resource to help you through my pain, passion and purpose.




5 Reasons to Check Your Credit Report Regularly

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by Lexington Law

In much the same way that a resume displays your work experience to a prospective employer, a credit report provides prospective creditors (and in some cases employers and insurers too) with a detailed picture of your credit history. And like a resume, your credit report can influence whether you will receive what you are applying for.

Ideally, your credit report is an accurate, up-to-date reflection of your credit history. However, since we don’t live in an ideal world, there are many reasons that your credit report could contain inaccuracies that might prevent you from receiving the credit you deserve. The good news is you can take action to keep your report accurate. Here are the top five reasons why you should make a practice of regularly reviewing your credit report:

2_istock_000072356829_largeInaccuracies & Mixed Credit Files

Many inaccuracies on a credit report can be the result of simple human error, and are therefore are not difficult to dispute. Of course, if you don’t order your credit report, you might never know about it. Whether the inaccuracies relate to payments not credited, late payments, or data mixed in from the credit file of someone else with a name similar to yours, you will want to contact the credit bureau to dispute inaccurate information promptly.

Tracking Payments

One of the most important elements of credit is a demonstrated history of on time payments. Once you send the check though, anything can happen–a delay in the payment being received can kick you over to a 30-day delinquency. If you call your creditor and explain the situation, they might adjust the information. Of course, if you don’t read your credit report, you won’t necessarily know which payments are being received and reported properly.

Identity Theft

This issue alone is reason to order your credit report immediately. Identity theft is an insidious crime, involving a thief who assumes your name to open new accounts, divert your card statements to another address, and run up all sorts of bad debt without you ever knowing about it until collectors come calling. Over time, identity theft could jeopardize your ability to obtain further credit. The best way to catch a thief who is using your name is by getting a copy of your credit report, which will show you if there are accounts listed you know you haven’t opened. For example, if a thief has intercepted a pre-approved credit card offer in your name and sent it in with a change of address, your credit report will include the account.


Inquiries

If you’re shopping around for a loan or more credit, you should know that when creditors check your credit, it places an inquiry on your credit report. Inquiries can add up, which is often interpreted as a negative by creditors. For this reason, too many inquiries can actually make getting credit more difficult. Moreover, if you didn’t authorize
someone to look at your credit report and they did, they may have broken the law.

Credit Fraud–Unauthorized Charges

Credit fraud involves the theft of your credit card or account number to make unauthorized charges to your account. Though consumers are protected financially from this abuse, other creditors may take note of all this activity and decide to raise your interest rates or refuse to grant you a loan. Ordering your credit report will help you catch new activity on accounts that you haven’t been using, or may have closed.

When it comes to managing your credit worthiness, your credit report is your best resource. Ordering your credit report gives you the opportunity to manage your credit wisely today, while planning your credit strategy for achieving future goals–a credit-savvy move every consumer should make!

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