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Power of Attorney or Guardianship: Which is Best for Caregivers

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This article is not my normal content of All Things Money, but I wanted to share something I am going through in hopes that it will help other families dealing with the same issue.

sonwithmenalillnessWhile on this heartbreaking journey of trying to maneuver through the massive gaps in the medical system regarding people mental illness; the main obstacles that I faced while trying to help my son were HIPPA and Patient Rights.

So, today I wanted to share the differences between a Guardianship versus Power of Attorney to that it will help other family members that may have the same concern when it comes to a loved one with mental illness.

The Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act, aka HIPPA, Privacy Rule regulates the use and disclosure of PHI (Protected Health Information), which is any information held by a covered entity which concerns health status, provision of healthcare, or payment for health care that can be linked to an individual. On the surface, this rule seems to be good to protect our Privacy regarding our health and medical information.

However, HIPPA began to hinder my ability to help my son who was incoherent and admitted to the mental medical facility. Yes, he is an adult. However, when a person is incapacitated, there didn’t seem to be any provision for a family member to obtain necessary information to assist the patient.

The Patient’s Bill of Rights in spirit clearly defines the rights of patients. One of the key areas that affected me was the patient’s right to refuse care or medication. This is frightening to me because if my son is not able to have a coherent conversation because of his mental illness, how is he going to be able to make a coherent decision regarding his care.  So, even when my son needed care or medication, the medical workers cannot admit or administer meds or care if he refuses, UNLESS … he is Suicidal or Homicidal!

Where is the support for preventative care to avoid someone from becoming Suicidal or Homicidal? I do not want my son to hurt himself, anyone or me because of this horrible illness! I do not want my son to get shot by police because he has a psychotic episode in public and they do not understand, recognize or know how to deal with his illness.

What do I do? I chose to proceed with the legal process of Guardianship instead of Power Of Attorney. I received several calls, emails, and social media inboxes asking me why I did not get a Power Of Attorney.

A power of attorney and guardianship are tools that help someone act in your stead if you become incapacitated.

Power of attorney

Essentially, with a power of attorney, you choose whom you want to act for you.

A power of attorney document allows a person to appoint a person(s) to act in their place for financial or medical purposes when and if they ever become incapacitated. A power of attorney can be limited to very specific situations or transactions, or it may grant full power to someone over all of their affairs.

A Power of Attorney is a PROACTIVE process and is best when the person can make a coherent decision to appoint another person to handle their affairs if they are unable to execute medical or financial decisions or transaction.  POA is generally for estate planning, long-term care planning, etc.

Guardianship

If an adult is incapable of making responsible decisions due to a mental disability, the court may appoint a substitute decision maker, often called a “guardian,” but in some states, it is called a “conservator.” Guardianship is a legal relationship between the guardian and the person who, because of incapacity, is no longer able to take care of his or her affairs (the “ward”). – Elder Law Answers

The guardian can be authorized to make financial, legal and health care decisions for the person. Depending on the terms of the guardianship and state practices, the guardian may or may not have to seek court approval for various decisions.

Guardianship is relatively a REACTIVE measure and may be perceived as a loss of freedom and dignity. Therefore, some state laws require that guardianship be imposed only when less restrictive alternatives have been attempted but proven to be ineffective, like a power of attorney.

Guardianship may be the best option for a person with a mental illness, mental disease, or terminal disease when they are incapacitated or incoherent.

Depending on the state, there may be court filing and attorney fees. Check with your state for their Guardianship process and fees.


Perhaps if I acted sooner, before my son’s mental health deteriorated, I would have been able to execute a Power Of Attorney with his consent. I hope this information will help those that read this to take the necessary steps to be proactive.

Please share. Thank you.

#MentalHealthMatters  #SchizophreniaSucks




CYA [Cover Your Assets] Biz Tip: Sometimes a BOP Bundle is Better for Businesses

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WERock CYA Tip 1 BOP Bundle is BetterScenario: Cindy recently opened her hair salon. This has been a dream of her for years and she finally did it! She ROCKS! About 3 months after she opened her salon, a customer slipped and fell and broke her arm. Someone spilled water on the floor and it wasn’t cleaned it up. The customer sued Cindy to pay for her medical bills. Two months after that, her salon was robbed. The criminals damaged stations and chairs and stole her flat screen TVs, registers, PCs and other equipment in her office. In spite of these challenges, Cindy pressed through and kept her business running.

Unfortunately, a few week after her 1st year anniversary, there was a fire in the space next to her salon in the store front strip mall. The fire didn’t destroy the structure but it did major damage to the interior of Cindy’s pride and joy. 🙁

You would think that Cindy would just quit, right? NO!!!

So, how was Cindy able to overcome all of these liability issues / property damages and keep her business open? She obviously had a FAB Business Protection Planner, aka Insurance Agent. 😉 They ROCK!!!


Getting several individual business insurance policies can be costly. Some of the required business insurance includes business interruption insurance, property insurance, vehicle coverage, liability insurance and crime insurance.

A BUSINESS OWNER POLICY (BOP) packages all required coverage a business owner would need. Based on your business’ or company’s specific needs, you can change what is included in a BOP.

Typically, you will save money by choosing … (continue reading “CYA [Cover Your Assets] Biz Tip: Sometimes a BOP Bundle is Better)

5 Signs You’re in Financial Denial

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Are you in Financial Denial?  If the answer is NO, then you probably are. Just kidding. However, Jimmy Ingrilli, from the Tayne Law Group Blog, shares 5 signs you may be in Financial Denial.


 

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What separates the financially responsible from those in financial denial?

While the reasons may differ from person to person, one answer can be their willingness to correct money problems if and as they arise. A hallmark of being financially responsible is taking action to right your money ship, while someone in financial denial is not able to admit they are having financial problems. It can be hard to admit or even notice a money problem exists, so here are some signs you may be in financial denial.

You’re Not Honest About Your Finances

If you’re dishonest, look to avoid conversation, or even downplay financial issues, then there’s a good chance you are in financial denial. Avoiding financial problems will not only hurt you, but can also hurt your loved ones. Financial dishonesty can lead to further disaster as your family members may spend money based on how they believe they stand financially. Someone who is financially responsible should know their income, exact debt, credit score, what their budget is, how much they should save, and have long and short term financial goals.

You Borrow Money Often

While borrowing money may seem necessary at times, a person living in financial denial believes borrowing money is the norm. They may rely heavily on credit cards or borrow from friends and family in order to pay off debt and bills. In other words, they “rob Peter to pay Paul.” This will never get you on track as you are only taking on debt to pay other debts and will never teach you responsible financial habits.

You Think ALL Your Debt is Good Debt

These days, debt is a household word and is often used to help us purchase big-ticket items. Good debt can be any loan you take on with the ability to pay back or any debt that can generate future income such as a school loan, … (continue reading Signs you’re in Financial Denial)

Help! My mailbox is filled with wedding invites, and I’m trying to budget.

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5-WeddingParty-BudgetingLet’s be real: attending other people’s weddings can get pricey quick. The worst part is that it usually comes in waves. I remember a few years back wondering why I hadn’t gotten any invitations yet. Low and behold, this year I received three for the same month. Be careful what you wish for.

This week we’re featuring two bloggers who tackle this adulthood struggle in their own ways.

First up is Erin Lowry, otherwise known as the Broke Millennial. Her blog is jam-packed with real-talk about handling money as a “Millennial,” and her work has been featured on Forbes and Kiplinger.

The Price Tag of Attending Other People’s Weddings

“Hey – guess who got engaged today,” Peach asked.

My stomach dropped. Our combined dance card felt dangerously full already with seven weddings populating our calendars from May to November.

“Who?” I choked out.

Peach smirked, clearly messing with me.

“Not nice,” I retorted, while wishing I could cradle my travel savings account and whisper in soothing tones, “I won’t totally deplete you.”

Lately, weddings seem to dominate both conversations and my bank account. The onslaught started about four years ago when I’d just hit 23. That’s not to say I’d been wedding free for the first 23 years of my life, but I didn’t have to pick up the tab as card-carrying member of the Bank of Mom and Dad.

Planning for the inevitable

Suddenly, entering my mid-twenties ushered me into a phase of life in which everyone around me seemed ready to get legally yoked to another human being. I was also a big girl with big girl paychecks – not to be confused with big paychecks – who no longer had an active account at the Bank of Mom and Dad.

After a year of five wedding invitations, and no end in sight, I decided it was time to stop trying to squeeze variable line item into my budget and instead give “Other People’s Weddings” its own savings account. It’s part of the reason I routinely joke that I’m saving for a wedding, just not my own.

Previously, the “Other People’s Weddings” fund served as my travel savings account, but considering most of my vacation had been co-opted by true love, the logic followed to just transition the account too.

The account gets funded by 25% of each freelance paycheck I earn. To clarify, that means I’m exclusively using side hustle money to pay for travel and focus my daytime job salary on other financial goals. Part of the reason I freelance is to subsidize non-essentials (in the sense of survival) like travel. I aim to have $2,000 to $4,000 available at any given time (depending on how many flights, hotels, presents and bachelorette parties I’ve recently attended).

On a few occasions, Peach and I have leveraged a wedding destination into … (continue reading Help! My mailbox is filled with wedding invites, and I’m trying to budget)